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Valuing every child's strengths

10/15/2024

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The Torah teaches us that the Arba Minim (4 kinds) symbolize Jews of varying levels of observance, and that we bring them together on Sukkos which represents the power of Jewish unity. On a deeper level, the characteristics allude to strengths and qualities of humans, such as intellectual capacity, emotional intelligence, sensitivity, sincerity, and honesty. It is about more than bringing people together, it is also about recognizing the unique personality, strengths, and talents that each person has, and understanding that we each have something to learn and gain from one another. 

Some children are great at memorizing, and some are great with numbers. Some are athletic, and some are musical. Some are intuitive and empathetic, and some are calm and loyal. In our classrooms we work to create an environment that gives each child the space and encouragement to find their talents and strengths, and to confidently share those with others. We invite children to teach and learn from their peers, and encourage them to compliment each other during class meetings. 

In the short term, turning learning into competitions may seem fun and easily motivating. However, let’s think about the deeper messages being internalized. In those situations children learn to rate themselves and their classmates based on how they do in competitions or on what “marks” they get. Do we want their self worth determined by an arbitrary rating scale, or do we want them to be recognized by their intrinsic values and gifts that they bring to the world? 
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We are all competing against ourselves, to be better than we were yesterday, to push ourselves harder, to learn and grow more and more. And part of our growth comes from learning from each other! ​

​-Mushky

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Process vs Product

10/15/2024

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“Mommy/Tatty… look what I made for you at school!” “Ima/Abba, I made a cool decoration for our Sukkah!” We all enjoy hearing those words coming out of our children’s mouth, excited and beaming with pride about what they have created or accomplished. As we leave for Sukkos break, some children may be bringing home art projects, while others may not. If your child has not brought anything home, don’t fret. Children respond in different ways to having a project to make. Some children relish the making of the project and are eager to take it home. Others may refuse entirely to participate in the project. There are others that will work hard on their project only to throw it in the garbage when they are done, or to say that they do not want to take it home. All of these are completely legitimate. Our children take ownership of their work, as we teach them to do, and therefore they may choose what to do with their final product. 

In our school the emphasis is on the process much more than on the product. The process is where the magic takes place! The learning, creativity and deep thinking and concentration happen while the children are working. Understanding what they are doing and feeling good about it are the main goals in any activity in the school. We want to respect the students' need for choice and therefore do not force them to create projects, or to take them home. We of course always offer and even discuss the values of making cool projects to take home, however, if a child refuses we do not force it. ​

​-Daniella

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